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It's a Twin Thing

Double the trouble, but double the joy! If you think it’s challenging caring for one fussy baby or active toddler, try two. Local moms with twins share their tips for multitasking and enjoying every moment. For those who may have wondered what it would be like to have twins, three sets of parents provide insight into what life is like raising twin babies/toddlers.

Peverley Reyes Hormann

mother to fraternal twins Ryan and Connor, 2 years old, Sylvania Township

What are some of the most difficult aspects of raising twins?

For Bill and me, it was really coping with the daily tasks, finding time to eat and cook, just basic day-to-day household stuff. When they were newborns, and we were first-time parents, it just seemed like they were hungry all the time, crying all the time, and there was just no time to even eat!

Are there any easy parts?

I like that they have a built-in playmate, especially right now. It’s also nice because they are on the same schedule, they eat the same things, they nap
at the same time, and I can take them both to the same activities.

What advice would you give parents expecting twins?

One of the best things some- one told me about was Mothers of Twins Club. It’s a national organization with a local
Toledo chapter. It has been an awesome resource. You can attend meetings or ask questions on their Facebook page. You can ask the craziest question ever and they won’t think it’s crazy at all because they’ve all been there!

Tony & Arwa Krerowicz

parents to fraternal twins Leo and Alia, 13 months, Sylvania

What are some of the hardest parts of having twins?

Tony: Staying awake.
Arwa: Yeah, because the whole sleep training concept is totally turned upside-down with two of them. If one of them is screaming, it wakes the other one up. When one is having a good patch with sleeping, the other is having a bad patch. Your body just gets used to not sleeping.
Arwa: Everyone always says, “It’ll be great because they will have a built-in playmate,” but really they just want to gouge each other’s eyes out. That’s the second hardest part of having twins.
Tony: We’re hoping Fisher Price makes some kind of WWE cage for babies.

Are there any easy parts?

Tony: Because they are our first children, I would never use the word “easy” for anything, but I’m glad we’re getting everything out of the way at the same time. We’re getting teething, sleep issues, walking, talking, all at the same time. Having twins, especially both a boy and a girl, also makes us very confident in saying that we’re done having kids.

How do you manage juggling everything?

Arwa: Who says we do?! In 35 years, I have never been late on a payment for anything…until the twins came along. You just have to learn to let some things go; you realize what’s important and what isn’t. Prioritizing is the biggest way we manage.

Kristy & Eric Dearth

parents to fraternal twins Cooper and Paige, 14 months, Perrysburg

What are some of the hardest parts of having twins?

Kristy: I would say making sure we spend enough personal time, time alone with mommy and daddy, with each kid.
Eric: One, trying to keep them on the same schedule or two, the time manage- ment piece. For me, it’s juggling getting enough time for family–I’m in the middle of getting my MBA–while also working full-time.

Are there any easy parts?

Kristy: Actually, for us, I think it’s easier that our kids are doing the same thing at the same time. Because they’re the same age, they have the same interests, hit their milestones at the same time, nap at the same time.
Eric: There is no easy part of having twins; that’s an oxymoron. Sometimes they do keep each other entertained. It doesn’t happen very often, but when it does, it’s great.

What advice would you give parents expecting twins?

Eric: Keeping them on the same schedule was an important piece that worked really well for us.
Kristy: That’s the best advice we got. Early on, if one of them woke up without the other, we would wake the other and feed them at the same time.

#Twinning in Twinsburg! .

In honor of all things “twins,” the Twins Days Festival in Twinsburg, Ohio, is the largest annual celebration and gathering of twins and other multiples in the world. It will take place on the first full weekend of August so mark your calendars now and make your plans. The theme for the 2014 Twins Days Festival is “Twin- stock – Groovy in Twinsburg!” and twins can dress however they want to channel that era. Expect to see a lot of peace signs and tie dye! Friday, August 1, Saturday, August 2, and Sunday, August 3. Admission $4/ person per day and children 5 & under/free. Twins Days Festival, 9825 Ravenna Rd., Twinsburg, OH 44087. 330-425-3652. www.twinsdays.org

Snagging Some Candy for Fun

Necessity is the mother and father of invention. That is the case with the website, www.candysnaggers.com,
designed by Toledo native Scott Francis and his wife, Kristin, who were looking for interesting and fun ways to celebrate birthdays and spend quality time with their four kids. With the help of their children, they came up with a downloadable (99 cent!)
board game with candy or othertokens as prizes. They’ve added more games, a coloring contest, and word scrambles and have plans for a Halloween version. Francis promises, kids will give up their cell phones and video games to give these a try. 

Visit www.candysnaggers.com to see more or call 419 283-8442 for more information.

Summer Fun: Ten Old-fashioned Outdoor Games to Teach Your Kids

Running and playing out of doors is a healthy way to spend a summer day. But, let’s face it; busy schedules and screen time often rob kids of this natural, healthy exercise. Do you remember playing running, hiding and tag games as a child? Did you play with neighborhood children well into the evening until your parents called you in for bedtime? Or maybe you remember playing outdoor games at summer camp where you experienced the thrill of a mad scramble to capture the opposing team’s flag. Winning the game wasn’t as important as the exciting participation.
 

No doubt you look back on your childhood playtimes with fondness and even a sense of loss. Today’s kids tend to be couch potatoes, or if they do engage in sports, it’s the organized kind. And, don’t get me wrong, there is much to be gained from team sports. But there’s also a lot to be gained from open-ended free play where kids run and hide and make up their own rules as they go. Neighborhood games can include kids of all ages and lend themselves to creativity as the games morph and change over time.

Your children probably know some of the games listed below. But they may never have played others. You can be their hero. Teach them several of these exciting group games and you’ll have to call them twice for dinner, just as your parents did a few years ago.

Capture the Flag
This old favorite requires a large, flat field such as a soccer field or a park area. Two teams are each trying to capture the other team’s flag and return it to their home base. Enemy players can be tagged and put out, sent home, or “frozen” depending on the rules decided upon at the beginning of play. Flags can be a variety of objects from fabric flags to balls. This game requires strategy, leadership and trickery along with running skill and the courage to attack. There are many variations of this game, be sure to choose team leaders and decide on the rules beforehand.

Kick the Can
In this game for a large number of children, a can or similar object is placed in a central location. The person who is “it” counts to a designated number as all the other players hide. “It” tries to defend the can while all the rest of the players attempt to get to the can and kick it before being spotted. Again, there are many variations of this game. Players may be tagged out, or the person who is “it” can simply call out their name as they are spotted.

Duck, Duck, Goose
This circle game for younger children requires no equipment. Children are seated in a circle and one player is “it.” The person who is “it” moves around the outer perimeter of the circle, touching each child’s head as he says, “duck, duck, duck.” At his choosing he touches a head and says “Goose,” which is the signal for the seated child to stand and run after the first child. If “goose” can tag the “it” child before running all around the circle to the beginning spot, he is safe, otherwise he becomes the new “it.” There are other versions of this game, for example one in which the toucher is called the fox and the sitters are the hens.

Flashlight Tag
This game is also known as Army Tag or Spotlight. In this tag game players are caught by a flashlight beam. In some versions the “it” person must also accurately call out the name of their captive player. Those caught in the light must either go to a jail spot until they are rescued by another player’s tag or they’re frozen until released. Only the “it” person has a flashlight. All rescues are done by hand.

Hide and Seek
Also known as Hide and Go Seek, the designated “it” person counts to a number while all other players hide. Players are put out as they’re found and the last person to be found is the new “it.” This game originated in 19th century England and traditionally was passed on to younger children by older ones. It has many variations. Some versions have the “it” call out “Olly, olly, oxen free” to signal all players to return to home base.

Mother May I?
One player is Mother (or Father or Captain). All the others line up a distance away facing the Mother. Each player is given instructions in turn. “You may take 5 baby steps” or “You may take two giant steps.” The player replies, “Mother, may I?” and the Mother replies, “Yes, you may.” If the player forgets to ask permission he or she returns to the starting position. Mother can give backwards steps which also must be obeyed. The player to successfully reach Mother first becomes the leader. A variation of this game is “What’s the time, Mr. Fox?” The Fox answers with “It’s five o’clock,” indicating each player can take five steps. But if he calls out “Dinner Time” or “Midnight” the Fox then chases and tries to catch a player who then becomes the Fox.

Statues
Statues is a popular tag game played in many areas of the world. The “it” person turns his or her back on the rest of the players and they are free to move toward a goal until the “it” person turns. When “it” turns the players must freeze and not be seen moving or they’re directed to return to the starting point. Each country has words the leader must say before turning. Sometimes they count or, for example, in England they may spell out the word London before turning to catch their opponents.

Cat’s Cradle
String games have been around for many years. They involve placing string on the fingers and moving in a certain order to create shapes. Some string games have accompanying stories. Cat’s Cradle is one popular string game shape. These games have been found all over the world in various cultures. While diagrams are helpful to learn the games, they most often are passed from child to child.

Red Rover
Red Rover is a traditional game first played in England and later played in Australia, Canada and the U.S. Two teams of children face off holding hands, usually about thirty feet apart. The captain of one team calls out, “Red Rover, Red Rover, send ___ right over.” That person from the opposing team then runs and tries to break through the hands of two players. If they are successful, they’re allowed to choose a person to take back to their team. If they fail they become part of the opposing team.

Sardines
In this version of hide and seek one person is it and is allowed to find a hiding place. All the others search for “it” and when they find him or her they join in hiding in that spot. (Thus beginning to feel like sardines) Each player in turn joins the hiding spot until one last person becomes the new “it.”=

The rules to all of these games are simple and a minimum of equipment is needed. Playing them involves a lot of running and physical exercise. The joy is in the play. Share these old-fashioned games with your children—soon.
Jan Pierce, M.Ed., is a retired teacher and freelance writer specializing in family life articles. She can be found at www.janpierce.net.

Sidebar
Michelle Obama’s Let’s Move program for the kids of America:
See www.letsmove.gov for more information
·    Launched on February 9, 2010
·    The goal: to improve the health of American children by
o   Fighting the epidemic of childhood obesity in the U.S.
o   Teaching healthy nutrition via education in gardening and cooking
o   Increasing physical activity to 60 minutes of moderate to vigorous
play every day.
·    Aimed at parents, schools, community leaders, elected officials and….KIDS.

Smashed bus seeks to raise awareness of U.S. infrastructure concerns

A smashed school bus was displayed in front of One Government Center on Tuesday by a union that is seeking to raise awareness about the country’s poor infrastructure.

The Laborers’ International Union of North America is on a multi-state tour calling for Congress to pass a long-term, full-investment highway bill. The union represents public service employees across the country.

LiUNA! made its presence known by parking a school bus, crushed by a piece of fallen bridge, in front of Toledo’s government headquarters.

The bus, not actually damaged by falling debris but symbolic of the potential dangers, featured signs saying, “You’re about to get schooled on our failing infrastructure,” and, “Think this can’t happen in your town? Well think again.” Community members were encouraged to share what they saw on social media and to visit fixourbridges.com.

Richard Greer, director of strategic communications for LiUNA!, discussed the union’s concerns with passersby.

“One in four bridges in the U.S. is deficient or obsolete,” Greer said. “Of all traffic fatalities, poor road surfaces like potholes contribute to a third of them. So it’s time for Congress to act or push them in the path to pass a full-investment highway bill this year.”

He said Ohio is specifically affected by the deteriorating infrastructure.

“Potholes themselves cost the average motorist in Ohio $413 a year in repair costs,” he said. “Almost 400 traffic fatalities in the state are due in part to poor road services, so it is as much a problem in Ohio as it is in the rest of the country.”

Greer said he hopes to raise awareness and put pressure on Congress by engaging with those who see the crushed bus. Many tell him they relate and say they go over potholes every day, or remember events when infrastructure has failed, he said.

“It is a dramatic symbol, so people stop, pull over, take photos and if you engage them in a conversation they resonate,” he said ”People still remember the bridge collapse in Minneapolis [in August, 2007] that killed 17 people. So it resonates with people.”

He said the bus is symbol of what could happen if nothing is done to improve the country’s infrastructure.

“Luckily this didn’t really happen and we don’t want it to happen,” Greer said. “It’s a symbol of what could happen if we don’t wake up and take care of the backbone of our country—roads and bridges.”

The six-week tour started in Delaware and has traveled through Pennsylvania and Ohio, heading for Michigan, Wisconsin, Indiana, Kentucky, Missouri, Virginia and Maryland before ending in Washington, D.C.

“I’m sure your city government has a long list of things they’d like to have repaired and they know if there is no highway built, no federal resources coming through the state, they won’t be able to do it.”

 

Father's Day Gift Ideas

Stuck on what to get dad! No worries, we have a list of fun things he will love below.

Family Tree DNA genealogy kit

There is no one quite like Dad. He is the story-book-reader, the scraped-knee-healer, and the piggy-back-ride hero of childhood. And even though no one is exactly like dad, there is someone who is at least partially like him: YOU. This year how about thanking your dad (as you wouldn’t be you without him) by giving him generations of knowledge about his own family line? Family Tree DNA is home to the world’s largest genealogical DNA database. With the simple swab of a cheek, in 6 weeks’ time, your dad can find out his unique ethnic origins, can locate relatives dating back hundreds of years and so much more

Available at www.familytreedna.com/ for $99. 

California Red or Chardonnay from WineGreeting.com

This Father’s Day, give your dad a one-of-a-kind gift that he’ll use and love! Instead of a pricey bottle of wine that he’ll forget, go to WineGreeting.com, select a delicious California Red or California Chardonnay, choose a label from a huge selection, and add your favorite photo of Dad to that label! 

Available at winegreeting.com, prices start at $26.95.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ronco EZ-Store Rotisserie

This is the perfect gift for dads who love to be in the kitchen! Instead of buying pre-packaged rotisserie chicken from the grocery store, let him turn into a gourmet chef at home. With a "Set-It-And-Forget-It" oven, he can create hassle-free meals for the family with this!

Available at www.samsclub.com/sams/ronco-rotisserie/prod11370413.ip for $50.

 

 

 

 

 

Endless Games Board Games

Dad would love to receive board games for Father's Day to play with his friends and family! For ages 3 to 103, Endless Games offers card, dice, party, word, strategy, trivia, survey and pop culture games for everyone! It's the perfect way to bond with family friends and games are sure to result in side-splitting laughter.

Available at www.endlessgames.com. Games starting at $16.99.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ronco Pocket Fisherman

For the dad who loves to fish, the Ronco Pocket Fisherman has become one of the world’s best selling fishing poles of all time! Now it is back and better than ever. Simply unfold the Pocket Fisherman and you have a durable and fully portable fishing pole that is super small, but still lands HUGE catches!  It’s patented, double flex rod and adjustable rod helps land your line where you need it to be every time.  Traditional fishing poles are great, but only if you have the space to transport them.  The great thing about the Pocket Fisherman is that it can be stored in your glove compartment, on your belt or yes, even in your POCKET! 

Available at  www.pocketfisherman.com/ for $19.95.

The Matching Tie Guy

Normally we think ties are lame gifts for Father's Day, right? Well, matching father and son ties are hip, adorable and all the rage this year!  This will be your families greatest photo opportunity– moms will tear up for sure. No need to run all around town looking for identical ties, just hop on to the www.thematchingtieguy.com website and you’re on your way to priceless pictures. There are tons of styles and colors, quality ties for men, boys and babies in a variety of sizes. Adorable and affordable! 

Available at www.thematchingtieguy.com. Ties starting at $16.95 from newborn to adult.
 

Darling Daughters

Young girls need strong male role models in their lives. When a father shows a genuine interest in his daughter and treats her with respect, he sends her the message that all men should treat her in a similar manner. And they should.

Dads want the best for their little girls and when they connect with their darling daughter, they are gifted with the opportunity to give their girl the best parts of themselves. Whether you know a dad who needs a hand up building his relationship with a little lady or are a father working to reconnect with a teenager, here are a few quick tips for dad.

Get Involved

Do you come home after work and immediately turn on the TV or flip on your iPad? Perhaps you don’t get home until after your kids are in bed. Whatever the case, now is the time to re-evaluate your priorities. By getting involved with at least one aspect of your daughter’s life, you will see a change in how connected the two of you are. Coach her soccer team. Have dinner with the family a few times a week. Get to know the other dads in her social circle. Making the time to get involved is a great first step.

Respect Her Mother

The way you treat your daughter’s mother (and your own mother) will speak volumes to your little girl about how men treat women and what she should expect in the future. A good rule of thumb is to always treat your wife the way you want your daughter’s future husband to treat her. You may not know it, but she is watching you for cues on how to behave with men.

Carve Out One-on-one Time

Daddy/daughter dates are one of the best things you can do to connect with your daughter. Plan ahead, but be sure to include her in the process. If you make this special time a weekly or monthly occurrence, you will fall into a rhythm that makes you more relatable and easier to talk to. This is when she will start confiding in you and letting you into her world.

Hug Her

No matter how old your daughter gets, never stop showing her affection. Hugs may not seem welcome when your teenager is giving you the cold shoulder, but studies show that the teenage years are the most formative time for a young girl’s self-esteem. She needs those hugs.

Tune in to the Details

Girls today have a lot going on and parents can sometimes be clueless to the details of their daughters’ lives. Do you know who her close friends are? What books she is reading? What TV shows and celebrities she is interested in? Tuning in to the little details of your daughter’s life will make her feel like an important part of your world.

Follow Up

If your daughter comes to talk to you about a problem, check in with her about it after the fact. Nothing says “I care” more than interested follow up on previous discussions. Follow up lets her know that you were listening to her and will make her more likely to confide in you in the future.

Whether your daughter is young and you are working to lay a foundation for the future or she is a teenager or older and you are looking to repair a distant relationship, connect with her today and you will both enjoy the benefits of a strong relationship for years to come.

Ten Great Dates for Dads and Daughters

Looking for a few ideas for a great father/daughter date? Try one of these favorites on for size:
1.  Dinner
2.  The Movies
3.  Bowling
4.  Ice Cream
5.  Picnic in the park
6.  Hiking
7.  Shopping
8.  Mini Gold
9.  Playing video games at home together
10.   Seeing a play at the theater

Beth N. Davis writes from Silver Spring, MD where she and her husband are raising their four children (including three young daughters).