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Holiday Wish List 2014

 

Don’t get stumped on what to get family and friends this holiday season
Ever feel overwhelmed when it comes to getting the perfect gift? Toledo Area Parent is here to remove the stress of wondering whether your little ones, parents or friends will love what they unwrap. Our Holiday Gift Guide provides ideas on how to bring smiles to everyone’s face this Christmas.

The Gift of Science

1 Discovery Way, Toledo
419-244-2674
www.imaginationstationtoledo.org

Give the gift of science fun this holiday with a year-long membership to the Imagination Station. Membership offers unlimited access to the science center, reciprocal membership at over 300 science centers across the country, discounted prices for Dinosaurs Unearthed, free Simulator Theater rides, access to special members-only events and discounts for summer camps, the gift shop and the cafe.

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Little Lego Lovers

5180 Chappel Dr., Perrysburg
419-690-9311
www.builditperrysburg.com

Start the ultimate adventure at Build It! Your little learners will create masterpieces at Toledo’s lego destination filled with bricks, colorful walls and plenty of space for their imagination. Their Snow Globe and Ornament classes for the holidays will give the gift of creativity. Also, visitors will enjoy their recently-constructed slide that is waiting for kids to build legos on.

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Keeping Christ in Christmas

4100 Secor Rd., Toledo
419-474-4740
www.regers.com

The beautiful and intricate nativity scenes and statues at Reger’s Church Supplies & Religious Gifts bring back the meaning of Christmas. And it doesn’t stop there. Religious ornaments, home decor, stocking stuffers, baptism and christening outfits, books and DVDs adorn the store, leaving you with an overwhelming selection of how to make the holidays meaningful, beautiful and special.

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Serenity is Key

1685 Lance Pointe Rd., Maumee
419-891-2181
www.serenityspamaumee.com

Serenity Health & Wellness Center in Maumee is offering holiday specials and packages that everyone will love, especially hard-working moms! They offer over 20 different services including prenatal services, detoxification, relaxation treatments, sports enhancement and more to honor the body both physically and mentally. Receive a two-hour Spa Day including a Luxury Facial and Full Body Massage for only $99. Gift certificates may be customized and purchased from their website and printed or emailed directly to your loved one!

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Satisfy a Sweet Tooth

954 Phillips Ave., Toledo
419-720-7387
www.boydsretrocandy.com

The ultimate treat for every sweet tooth is a trip to Boyd’s Retro Candy Store. The family-owned business is a child’s paradise with a Willy Wonka feel and an endless supply of candy. Holiday gift baskets ($19.99) and retro mesh stockings filled with candy ($9.99) will bring more cheer to homes this December. Make your own candy mix by focusing on specific decades. A very retro way to celebrate the holidays!

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Recycle the Love

7565 W. Sylvania Ave.
Sylvania
419- 841-7500

140 E. South Boundary St.
Perrysburg
419-872-8616

5644 Monroe St.
Sylvania
419-841-7500

www.onceuponachild.com

Once upon a time, a concept was created that families should share and recycle gently-used baby and children’s products, and parents everywhere rejoiced! Once Upon a Child buys and sells gently used kids’ clothing, shoes, toys and baby gear, giving you the opportunity to purchase products in your neighborhood store that are safe and affordable. You’re sure to find perfect Christmas gifts for the mini fashionistas in your life!

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Make a Splash

1705 Toll Gate Dr., Maumee,
419-482-7777
www.splashbayresort.com

Dive into Splash Bay Waterpark for year round indoor water activities! Gift a membership of Splash passes for a family on your Christmas list, or treat your clan to a year’s worth of access to 35,000 square feet of water fun. The adjoining Holiday Inn also offers Splash Bay gift cards in $50 denominations, which can be used toward the hotel and/or waterpark.

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Holiday Hullabaloo

Parades, carolers, tree lightings, artisan markets, visits with Santa, and other happenings capture the spirit of the holiday season. This list will carry your sleigh to some fun and family-friendly activities.

Ongoing Events

 

Through December 17

Holiday Gift Drive 

Levis Commons

3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg

419-931-8888

www.shopleviscommons.com

Give the best gift ever by donating a new, unwrapped toy, gift card or other donation to the Lucas County Children Services Holiday Gift Drive!

 

Through December 24

Photos with Santa

The Shops at Fallen Timbers

3100 Main St., Suite 1599, Maumee

419-878-6255

www.theshopsatfallentimbers.com

Flash your pearly whites next to Santa and capture the moment while you tell him what’s on your list!

 

Through December 24

Letters to Santa

Levis Commons

3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg

419-931-8888

www.shopleviscommons.com

If you miss Santa while he’s visiting, drop off your wish list in the nearby mailbox and receive a response from Saint Nicholas! Favorites will be posted online every week. 

 

Through December 24

Visits with Santa

December 1-14: Fridays 4-8pm, Saturdays Noon-8pm, Sundays 1-6pm; December 15-20: Daily Noon-8pm; December 21: 1-6pm; December 22: Noon-8pm; December 23: Noon-8pm

Levis Commons

3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg

419-931-8888

www.shopleviscommons.com

Bring your camera and snap photos while you visit with Santa in his festive 

house on the boulevard!

 

Through December 27

Horse-drawn Carriage Rides

Levis Commons

3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg

419-931-8888 

www.shopleviscommons.com

Take in the beautifully decorated boulevard on a horse-drawn carriage ride. $5/person or $10/family. 

Events

 

December 1-January 4

Lights Before Christmas

Sunday–Thursday 3-8pm, 

Friday and Saturday 3-9pm

Toledo Zoo

2 Hippo Way, Toledo

419-385-4040, www.toledozoo.org 

Come enjoy the frolicking light show and promenading carolers, meet Santa until he leaves for the North Pole on December 24, and rejoice in the glow of the Big Tree. Cooler climate animals will also be out on display for little elves to enjoy! $11/ages 12-59, $8/seniors 60+ and children 2-11, Free/kids under 2. 

 

Tuesday, December 2

Community Holiday Celebrations

6:30-8pm

Point Place Branch of the Toledo Public Library

2727 117th St., Toledo

419-259-5390, www.toledolibrary.org

Enjoy local musical talent, refreshments and merriment at this fun and free family event! Bring your holiday cheer and mingle and jingle with your family and community! Free

 

December 2–January 4

Frostology

Imagination Station

Tuesday–Saturday 10am-5pm, 

Sunday Noon-5pm

1 Discovery Way, Toledo

419-244-2674

www.imaginationstationtoledo.org 

Come and take part in the slippery science of snow, as Santa’s little elves create works and crafts from paper holiday-themed activities. The chilly theme will continue through the month of December during regular business hours. Regular admission rates apply.

  

Thursday, December 4

Cookies and Cocoa with Claus

6-8pm

Imagination Station

1 Discovery Way, Toledo

419-244-2674

www.imaginationstationtoledo.org  

Imagination Station members are invited to a pajama dance party with Santa! The jolly night will fuse holiday cookies and cocoa and frosty cool science. Reservations required, members only.

  

December 5-December 7

A Christmas Carol

The Valentine Theatre

410 Adams St., Toledo

419-242-3490

www.valentinetheatre.com

This is a holiday favorite featuring a tale of redemption that embodies the true meaning of Christmas. Expect to see lavish costumes, spectacular sets and a musical score rich with carols of the era put on by the Toledo Repertoire Theatre. $27/adults, $22/seniors, $17/children 13 and under.

 

December 5-7

Heralding the Holidays

5-9pm. Toledo Botanical Garden, 

5403 Elmer Dr. 

419-536-5566

www.toledogarden.org

Unique holiday gifts are for sale in the conference center, Artists Village and Seasons Gift Shop. Everyone can visit with Santa Claus and on Friday night, enjoy a free horse-drawn wagon ride.  

 

December 5, 6, 12 and 13

Holiday Lantern Tour

4–8:30pm

Sauder Village

22611 St. Rte 2, Archbold

1-800-590-9755, 

www.saudervillage.org 

Historic Sauder Village gives guests a turn of the century tour by lantern light as a costumed guide takes small groups on a pilgrimage to the early 1900’s. Guests will experience the holiday customs of that time, join in a hymn in the church and receive a small gift respective to the early century theme. Preregistration and prepayment is required. Nonmembers: $12/adult, $7/children 3-16. Members: $10/adult, $6/children 3-16. 

  

Saturday, December 6

Festivities in the Farmhouse

10am

Wildwood Preserve

5100 W. Central Ave., Toledo

419-407-9700

www.metroparkstoledo.com 

The farmhouse at the East entrance of the Wildwood Preserve hosts a warm but wintry fellowship for the merry community. Holiday activities featured include many unique crafts for kids. Volunteers from Read for Literacy will be reading holiday stories to the kids and Santa may even make an entrance! Apple cider and snacks provided. Free

 

Saturday, December 6

International Tea & Gingerbread Party

11:30am-1pm & 1:30pm-3:30pm

Hilton Garden Inn at Levis Commons

3201 Levis Commons Blvd., Perrysburg

419-878-8548

www.isohimpact.org/tea 

Watch your children’s faces light up as they decorate a gingerbread house that’s theirs to take home! You’re invited to ISOH/Impact’s annual International Tea Party at the Hilton Garden Inn. Enjoy delicious food, desserts, savory soup and steaming cups of fragrant teas. Tea & Gingerbread House Package- $45/each (includes one adult tea, one child’s tea and one gingerbread house), $25/individual adult, $25/individual child.

 

December 6–December 14

Holidays in the Manor House/Holiday Café and Craft Show

10am

Wildwood Preserve

5100 W. Central Ave., Toledo

419-407-9700

www.metroparkstoledo.com 

Stroll through the historic Manor House and let the beautiful holiday decorations whisk you away through history. After the tour, visit the craft show and café in Metroparks Hall. Warm up with coffee, hot chocolate, cookies and popcorn. Handmade gifts are for sale from local craftsmen. Free

  

Saturday, December 6

Jingle Bell Run 5K

9am

The Shops at Fallen Timbers

3100 Main St., Maumee

419-878-6255, 

www.jinglebellrunmaumee.kintera.org 

Be a part of the largest holiday 5K race series aimed to fight arthritis! Jingle Bell Run/Walk for Arthritis is a fun and festive way to kick off your holidays by helping others and has been voted one of the Most Incredible Themed Races! Whether running or walking, all are encouraged to wear holiday themed attire – some even tie jingle bells to their shoelaces! $30/adults, $10/children.

 

Saturday, December 6

Southview Band’s Santa Break and Holiday Extravaganza

9am-2pm

Southview High School

7225 W. Sylvania Ave., Sylvania

419-824-8580

www.southviewband.com                                                                                                       

Kids can color holiday crafts, have their faces painted and take pictures with Santa and his elves. The vendor fair on site will feature Pampered Chef, Usborne and Close to My Heart products. Breakfast and lunch will be available for purchase. Take part in the silent auction and get into the holiday spirit as the Southview Jazz Band performs holiday tunes throughout the day.

 

Sunday, December 7

Toledo Symphony Orchestra: Handel’s Messiah

2-4pm

Toledo Museum of Art Peristyle 

2445 Monroe St., Toledo

419-255-8000

www.toledosymphony.com

Don’t miss this family outing, as the Toledo Symphony, Toledo Choral Society and BGSU choruses present Handel’s iconic masterpiece Messiah. It’s the Messiah of the season! $35/adults, $17.50/students & children.

 

December 8, 16 and 17

Let it Snow Magic Show with Andrew Martin Locke

 Maumee and South Toledo Public Library Branches

419-259-5200 

www.toledolibrary.org 

It’s sure to be a spirited holiday show of wonders with everyone’s favorite magician, Andrew Martin. December 8, 7-8pm at the Maumee Auditorium, December 16, 6-7pm at the Locke Meeting Room and December 17, 4-5pm at the South Meeting Room. Free

 

Tuesday, December 9

20th Annual Walking in a Winter Wonderland

6:30-8pm

Toledo Heights Branch of 

Toledo Public Library

423 Shasta Dr., Toledo

419-259-5220

www.toledolibrary.org 

Start the evening off with a craft at the library and then walk to the Highland Park Shelter House for songs, cookies and hot chocolate. This event is cosponsored by the Toledo Heights Friends of the Library and the City of Toledo. Free

  

December 11-14 and December 18-21

Winter Wonderland

6-8pm

Sandusky County Fairgrounds

901 Rawson Ave., Fremont

419-332-5604

www.sanduskycountyfair.com 

The Sandusky County Fairgrounds are magically turned into a winter wonderland featuring crafts for kids, refreshments, visits with Santa, carriage rides, horse rides, craft shows, vendors, carolers and more. Cost is $1 or a donation of a nonperishable food item.

 

December 12, 13, 19, 20

Carriage Rides

The Shops at Fallen Timbers

3100 Main St., Suite 1599, Maumee

419-878-6255

www.theshopsatfallentimbers.com

Experience holiday magic on a complimentary carriage ride through Fallen Timbers!

 

December 12, 13, 19, 20

Strolling Carolers 

The Shops at Fallen Timbers

3100 Main St., Suite 1599, Maumee

419-878-6255

www.theshopsatfallentimbers.com

Listen to beautiful holiday tunes by “The Christmas Carol” performers as you walk around and shop.  

 

December 12 –December 27

Children’s Wonderland

11am-8pm

Tam-O-Shanter

7060 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania

419-885-1167

www.childrenswonderland.org 

Come enjoy the merriment at this festive wonderland specially designed for kids! Enjoy the toy store, bakery, train rides, kids interactive zone, pictures with Santa and more! $6/adults, $3/children and seniors, additional $5/Kid Zone and $9/Santa’s Workshop (December 13 and 20, 9:30 am).

 

Saturday, December 13

Holiday Crafternoon

3-4pm

Sanger Branch of the Toledo Public Library

3030 W. Central Ave., Toledo

419-259-5370, www.toledolibrary.org

Create and take home a holiday ornament, festive card or anything else you can create during this hour-long crafting program. Bring your jolly family and have a great holiday-themed afternoon! Free

 

Saturday, December 13

Indoor Family Movie Night

8-10pm

Downtown Perrysburg Commodore School Building/Beck Auditorium

Louisiana Ave. at Indiana Ave., 

Perrysburg, 419-872-6246

www.downtownperrysburg.org 

Warm up inside with a family friendly holiday movie! Enjoy festive pre-movie entertainment with free popcorn and refreshments. Free

 

Saturday, December 13

Santa Claus is Coming to the Library

2-3pm

Holland Branch of the Toledo Public Library

1032 S. McCord Rd., Holland

419-259-5240, www.toledolibrary.org

Visit the head elf, Santa! Join in the fun as Santa and the librarians share stories, treats and a craft. Registration is required. Free

   

Saturday, December 13

Wonderfully Different Christmas Traditions

11am

Wildwood Preserve

5100 W. Central Ave., Toledo

419-407-9700

www.metroparkstoledo.com 

Come in and keep warm out of the blustery weather! The original 1893 one-room schoolhouse is delightfully decorated for holiday visitors. During this open house, enjoy refreshments and learn about the jolly Christmas traditions from all over the world. String some popcorn for the tree at Oak Grove School and make a Victorian ornament to hang on your own tree. Registration is required. Free

 

Sunday, December 14

Hanukkah Palooza 2014

4-6pm

Congregation Temple Shomer Emunim, 

6453 Sylvania Ave. 419-724-0368

www.jewishtoledo.org

Celebrate the Festival of Lights with a Hanukkah rock concert, a special themed dinner and holiday activities. $15/family before December 5, $20/family after December 5 and at door.

 

Saturday, December 13 & Sunday, December 14

The Nutcracker

Saturday 2&7pm, Sunday 2pm

Stranahan Theater

4645 Heatherdowns Blvd., Toledo

419-381-8851

www.stranahantheater.org 

Take your family to see the longest running annual performance of The Nutcracker in the country. Toledo Ballet’s Nutcracker is in its 74th annual production, and they push closer to perfection each year. Be part of this holiday extravaganza, accompanied by The Toledo Symphony Orchestra, and includes the hilarious celebrity, Mother Gingers. $24-$54.

 

Sunday, December 14

Holiday Open House  

1-4pm

Fort Meigs

29100 W. River Rd., Perrysburg

419-874-4121

www.fortmeigs.org 

The Visitor Center of Fort Meigs hosts War of 1812 soldiers and civilians who will provide demonstrations and answer questions about the War of 1812 and camp life. Enjoy hands-on activities, holiday music and refreshments. Get some holiday shopping done in the museum store with historical and unique holiday gifts! $5/adults, $4/seniors, $3/students, free/5 + under. 

 

Sunday, December 14

Winter Festival of Crafts

10am-4pm

Franciscan Center at Lourdes University

6832 Convent Blvd., Sylvania

419-841-1593, 

www.lourdes.edu/home/aboutlourdes/franciscancenter.aspx

See their beautiful setting for their last show of the year where you can pick up last minute holiday gifts and decorations that will make the holidays brighter! Crafts are made by local artists. 

 

Monday, December 15

Winter Celebrations

5-7:30pm

Washington Branch of the Toledo Public Library

5560 Harvest Lane, Toledo

419-259-5330 www.toledolibrary.org 

Celebrate the holidays family-style with cookie decorating, crafts, refreshments and fun. This family event is guaranteed to bring excitement. All ages are welcome. Free

 

Friday, December 26

Sleigh Rides

1-4pm

Rutherford B Hayes Presidential Center

1 Spiegel Grove, Fremont

419-332-2081, www.rbhayes.org 

Culminate your holiday season with a relaxing ride through wintry snow at the historic Rutherford B Hayes Presidential Center. $3/rider.

 

December 27–January 4

Toledo Walleye Winterfest

Fifth Third Field /Huntington Center

406 Washington St., Toledo

419-725-9255, www.toledowalleye.com 

Downtown Toledo and Fifth Third Field transform into a winter wonderland for Toledo’s very first outdoor professional hockey game at the Mud Hens Ballpark. Promedica Toledo Hospital will also present family-friendly activities for fans of all ages. Game schedules are posted on the website.

 

Wednesday, December 31 

Noon Year’s Eve

11:15am-12:15pm

Point Place Branch of the Toledo Public Library

2727 117th St., Toledo

419-259-5390, www.toledolibrary.org 

Let little ones experience the joys of a New Year’s celebration without having to stay up late! Enjoy treats, refreshments and the traditional New Year’s countdown 12 hours early! Registration is required. Free

 

Wednesday, December 31

Noon Year’s Eve

Noon

Toledo Zoo

2 Hippo Way, Toledo

419-385-4040, 

www.toledozoo.org 

Raise a toast to the New Year and sing a round of Auld Lang Syne all at the stroke of noon! Perfect for the younger crowd eager to make it to midnight! Enjoy all the celebrations of the evening in the middle of the day! Normal admission rates for the zoo apply.

A Holiday Tradition that Takes a Little Teamwork

Well the holidays are here and with the holidays, come the Elf on the Shelf visits. We have a very active elf named Shimmer who comes to stay with us every year through December. She makes our mornings a lot of fun and adds an extra element of magic to the season, but not without a lot of planning and preparation on her part (and mine). I received this letter from her just before Thanksgiving and wanted to share it:

Dear Mrs. Rochelle,

The Holiday Season is once again upon us so I will soon make my journey from the North Pole to your house for our month-long tradition of observing your daughters’ behavior and delivering the naughty/nice report to Santa.

I am excited to spend another season with your family, but listen, we both know the tremendous amount of pressure that we will feel to outdo the last year’s shenanigans. The girls expect to be amused each morning. And your Facebook friends, well, let’s face it, they are already waiting with bated breath to see your photos of my antics every day. So we are going to have to really work together this year to live up to everyone’s expectations.

I wanted to get you a list of supplies that we are going to need to pull off another whimsical season. Your kids are bright. They talk to their friends. They have been through this before so they are going to be looking for some of the common elf mischief. Let’s cover the clichés right off the bat. I will need a bag of mini marshmallows- lots of mini marshmallows, candy canes, an economy-sized bottle of syrup and candy kisses. Please have Legos and Barbie dolls easily accessible for me so I don’t have to go hunting for them again. I will need red and green dry erase markers, I prefer new so they are nice and bright. And don’t forget gift bows and a pack of note cards. That should take care of the basics.

Now for the creative stuff. I still have a lot of details to work out. Topping some of last year’s scenes is not going to be easy, but I will give it my greatest effort. Honestly the “elfie” I took with your phone and making the pom poms was some of my best work ever. We set the bar high last year mom, but I think we can do it. I am up for the challenge and with your help of strategically leaving the right supplies out, we can make this season one your daughters will never forget!

I apologize in advance for the messes that I undoubtedly will make and beg you to give me as much advance notice of any overnight trips as possible. You have no idea how much your little holiday getaways mess with my itinerary. Your cooperation in all of these matters is appreciated.

Love,

Shimmer

P.S. Would you mind talking to your dog about my visit?  I don’t like how he looks at me.

As the mother of three girls who spend much of their time upside-down as gymnasts and cheerleaders, Kerri Rochelle often feels upside-down herself from the chaos. She blogs about the wow, and some of the not-so-wow, experiences of being a busy mom to Mikayla, 14, Macie, 11, and Mylee, 7, at theupsidedownmom.wordpress.com.

Bleu Smoke Bar & Grill

8165 Airport Hwy, Holland, OH 

567-742-7707

Mon-Thur: 11am-1am

Fri: 6:30am-1am

Sat-Sun: 11am-1am

www.facebook.com/pages/Bleu-Smoke-Bar-grill/684671761604921

 

I was so excited to see a new restaurant had opened in place of the now closed Bobby V’s on Airport and Albon Roads. I loved Bobby V’s and the friendships I had developed with everyone there. I was sad to see it close. There are not many restaurants out that direction, which is very close to my home. So part of me was really hoping the kids and I would enjoy the new place.

Sometimes, it just takes a few tries

In the 12 years I have resided in the Holland area, the building at Airport and Albon has been the home to four restaurants; Bleu Smoke recently debuting as the fifth in early September. With the opening of Glass City Athletics and soon Skyzone just across the street, their timing and location couldn’t have been more perfect.  

Owners Chris Zdunski, Brian Ruff, and Charles Kema possess a great deal of restaurant management and culinary skill, making quite a trio to get a new place off the ground. “We all have a very strong culinary background,” said Chris. “I have been wanting to do this for a long time.” Zdunski spent years traveling the country opening restaurants for large chains.

Wonderful service and family friendly

After spending years in the service industry, I quickly learned it’s a no-brainer to understand people can purchase your product or service anywhere. It’s customer service that will make or break you. My kids and I stopped in Bleu Smoke Bar & Grill for the first time on a recent Thursday evening. I immediately felt like they were sincerely happy to see us and couldn’t wait to give us a great dining experience. 

After seating us, the greeter, Brian, brought over crayons and coloring books for my sons. They may no longer be toddlers, but things are a bit more pleasant when they are kept occupied. We enjoyed their complementary Blue Cheese Balls (their version of the hush puppy) with their house made sweet and sour sauce. We also loved their Reuben egg rolls for an appetizer.

 They offer a wide variety on the menu with even more items to come, according to Zdunski. If you are in the mood for just soup and salad or a sandwich, you’ll find several to choose from.  However, entrees include things such as the goat cheese and herb stuffed chicken that I enjoyed with two sides for $11.99, chicken alfredo, or what Zdunski says is a house favorite, the 10-ounce center cut sirloin topped with their special sweet bleu cheese and bacon mix then crusted in the broiler.  

The kiddos can enjoy four choices on the kids menu for $3.99 or $4.99 and they get a choice of a drink and side. The mac and cheese was outstanding, and my youngest son enjoyed the grilled cheese and house fries. A ham and cheese melt and chicken tenders are additional options.

My daughter loved the M.T.B. Squared sandwich that was grilled like a panini and had thick sliced mozzarella, grilled tomato and fresh basil. Kema sent us home with a complimentary slice of fabulous homemade cheesecake, ensuring we left as happy customers.  I can see the kids and me becoming regulars in no time.

The Short Course

Kid-friendly Yes

To avoid wait Anytime

Noise level Moderate

Bathroom amenities No changing station 

High chairs Yes

Got milk Yes, as well as orange juice, cranberry juice, and lemonade

Kids’ menu Yes

Karen Zickes is a mom of three active children and freelance writer who resides in Holland, OH. She can be reached in c/o [email protected]. 

It’s Yoga For Parents and Kids

Relaxed and patient parents raise relaxed and patient kids. For those of us who are neither, It’s Yoga Toledo offers family classes at their new Ottawa Hills location. The weekly class is for parents and children, toddler age and older, so they are able to follow along. During class, families move through poses, but it’s not about achieving perfection; it’s about having meaningful parent/child interaction in a playful atmosphere. “Relaxed, calmer, centered, happier people make relaxed, calmer, centered, happier families,” said Marie Russel, chair of It’s Yoga International. “It’s about moving away from stress and fear and toward something that works.”

4324 Central Ave., Toledo. 419-531-0006. Downtown location, 135 N. Michigan St., Toledo. www.itsyogatoledo.com.

Manners Magic

Already dreading the thought of taking your rambunctious brood to Grandma's for a holiday meal? Most parents know that manners don't come naturally to children, and though we strive to teach children niceties like “please” and “thank you,” etiquette doesn't begin and end with the magic words. What about the tot who squirms at the dinner table and jumps up after two minutes? What about the grade-schooler who runs wild at friends’ homes? Or how about the high-schooler who shrinks during introductions?

If you’re raising a manners-challenged child, you’re not alone. Childhood manners mishaps are as common as children themselves, says Chris J. Rock, etiquette coach and founder of Etiquette and Protocol Consulting in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. The good news: youth is a time to learn and practice appropriate behavior, and mistakes are expected. Even better, swift etiquette intervention can lay the groundwork for a lifetime of civility.

TODDLER/PRESCHOOL: Table Training

The golden rule—treat others as you’d like to be treated—is the basis of all etiquette, says Rock. So how soon should parents start teaching children manners? “You can’t start them too young,” she notes. “There is no certain age when the magic begins.”

That means establishing family behavior norms early on. If you don’t want your children to run indoors, traipse through airplane rows, or jump on furniture, correct these behaviors in toddlerhood with a firm, gentle reminder: “That is not how we act in this family. It doesn’t matter what other children do.” Toddlers have notoriously short memories, so catchy songs can help etiquette lessons stick, says Rock. “We sing ‘Yes is better than Yeah’ with our grandchildren,” she says.  

Table manners training can also start early. Rock recommends introducing flatware as soon as children can hold it (often in late infancy or early toddlerhood), discouraging eating with the hands, and gently stretching the time tots can sit still during meals. Start with just four or five minutes, and build to 15 or 20. Children as young as two can be taught to ask their host—in most cases, mom or dad—to be excused from the table when finished.

ELEMENTARY YEARS: Social Graces

The grade-school years bring more friend visits and sleepovers—potential manners minefields, since kids will be away from parents’ watchful eyes. Teaching children to be a respectful guest in friends’ homes will ramp up confidence at a time when children are developing a social identity (and increase the odds of receiving a repeat invitation).

Pre-playdate, remind children that being a guest means respecting the household rules of their host. If the host family removes their shoes at the door or doesn’t allow snacking in bedrooms, a guest should comply. To show respect, ask children to address their friend’s parents as “Mr. and Mrs. Smith” unless directed by the parents to do otherwise. And for an especially nice touch, follow up a sleepover or a special playdate with a personal thank-you note from the child.

TWEENS/TEENS: Introduction Anxiety

Want your tween or teen to make a good impression? Teach them to make a proper introduction, a habit that pays lifelong dividends. To start, insist that children learn to introduce themselves with confidence and greet new acquaintances with eye contact and a firm handshake.

“Today’s teens are typically more comfortable interacting with technology than they are face-to-face. And yet, those who master the ability to meet and greet others with ease will always be viewed more favorably,” notes Deborah King, president of Final Touch Finishing School in Seattle. The basics of a positive introduction include standing up straight, making eye contact, smiling, saying hello and your name in a clear voice, and extending a firm handshake. Like any skill, repetition is the key to mastery.

“It’s important for parents to know introduction protocol themselves to they can model correctly,” says Rock. For example, when introducing two parties, the senior or more important person’s name is said first. Likewise, when introducing two friends, use equal terms for both; never use first and last name for one and just first name for the other. Polish introduction prowess by encouraging tweens and teens to introduce you and others at social gatherings and in group settings. Soon, they’ll be ready to take on the world—civilly, of course.

Malia Jacobson is an award-winning health and parenting journalist and mom of three. Her latest book is Sleep Tight, Every Night: Helping Toddlers and Preschoolers Sleep Well Without Tears, Tricks, or Tirades.