Buddy Walk Celebrates 15 Years

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September 27, 2016

BuddyWalk1_ExceptionalFamilies — Photo credit: Erin Kilburn Photography

Building a sense of togetherness and having a feeling of belonging are very important parts of our world. Whether that togetherness is created in a classroom, at a sporting event, or even at a coffee shop with a friend, the idea that you belong can be empowering.

This sense of empowerment is a major part of the mission of The Down Syndrome Association of Greater Toledo (DSAGT), which strives daily to “empower all individuals with Down syndrome to achieve their goals and reach their fullest potential by providing support, education and advocacy not only for the individual, but also their families and communities.”

Throughout the year, DSAGT hosts events, programs, and services that benefit individuals with Down syndrome, as well as their families. Teen programs are offered to provide social interactions for young adults, as well as family events that provide a great networking opportunity. One of the largest events established by DSAGT is its annual Toledo Buddy Walk, held each October during Down Syndrome Awareness Month.

BuddyWalk2_ExceptionalFamilies — **Photo credit: Erin Kilburn Photography**

Celebrating 15 years

The Buddy Walk was first formed nationally in 1995 as a way to promote acceptance and inclusion for people with Down syndrome. Over the years the event has grown from 17 walks to over 250 walks nationwide, including one in Toledo.

On October 2, the local buddy walk will celebrate its 15th anniversary. More than 1,500 friends, family members and supporters are expected at the event to help recognize the abilities of those with Down syndrome, share personal stories, and create a sense of togetherness.

For more information on Toledo Buddy Walk 2016 or The Down Syndrome Association of Greater Toledo, visit dsagt.org.

**Photo credit: Erin Kilburn Photography**

Breakout box:
15th annual Toledo Buddy Walk
Sunday | October 2 | 1 – 5 pm
Fifth Third Field
Register at www.dsagt.org

Conquering College Busy Year: Ahead for Bethany

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Emily Remaklus

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September 27, 2016

Dancer, swimmer, employee, homecoming queen, high school graduate and youth leader are just a few of the many titles that describe Bethany Wissler. Bethany is also a scholarship recipient and college student with Down Syndrome, and she lets nothing stop her from accomplishing her goals.

Keeping Busy

After becoming Whitmer’s 2013 Homecoming Queen and graduating in 2014, Bethany has remained extremely active in the community. Not only does she take social classes through The Ark and work as a hostess at Outback Steakhouse, but also she was selected to serve on staff for the youth leadership forum for special needs in Columbus.

This year Bethany is taking on an even bigger endeavor, as she is now a proud University of Toledo Rocket. She was recently accepted into the University of Toledo’s Postsecondary Transition Program, a college program intended to help young adults with disabilities enhance their skills for employment or prepare them for a degree program. The program focuses on creating curriculum and experiences to help students academically and socially, as well.

Kathy Wissler, Bethany’s mother, heard about the program several years ago. “I contacted them two years ago, but we decided to try a different avenue first,” she said, referring to Bethany’s position at Outback Steakhouse. Kathy said she felt this year Bethany was more mature and “ready to try something else.”

For the first semester, Bethany will be on campus twice a week, working on a couple credit hours. “She’s just excited about the whole idea of college, and taking on new challenges,” Kathy said.

To help with expenses, Bethany applied for the Ruby’s Rainbow Scholarship, intended for individuals over 18 who have Down Syndrome. She is the proud recipient of a $3,000 scholarship.

A Lasting Friendship

To add to the excitement, Bethany’s best friend Grace Haskins, a nursing student and member of the dance team, also attends the University of Toledo. Since they first met in second grade through cheerleading, the two have remained close friends. Grace attended orientation with Bethany, and is excited to help her get involved on campus.

Kathy said that Grace has played a major role in helping Bethany become the young woman she is today. “If someone with special needs has that friend who helps them, that’s huge. It makes a big difference…Grace is a really special girl. We’re really lucky,” Kathy said.

Along with Grace’s help, Kathy credited the Toledo community for the support that’s been shown to Bethany. “Toledo always seemed kind of big to me, but after she won Homecoming Queen everyone was recognizing her…Toledo seemed really close after that,” Kathy said. “God just shines on that girl. She is so lucky.”

Make Time for Date Night

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Digital Media

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August 24, 2016

I met some mom friends recently for coffee and I asked them about ‘date night’. Based on their facial expressions, I could tell that I had touched on a sensitive topic.

Each started sharing their date night woes:
“We can never find a sitter on a Saturday night.”
“There are no good movies out right now.”
“I can’t stay up that late.”
“It is just way too expensive.”
And, of course, “There is nothing fun to do in this town.”

I totally channeled my inner Cher and let out an intense “As if !” (Yes, I was a huge “Clueless” fan back in the day.) There is SO much to do in Toledo for a date night or even a date day – getting together with your significant other doesn’t have to be at night. It doesn’t have to be on a Saturday. And it doesn’t have to cost a lot. Let’s start thinking outside the dinner-and-a-movie date night box, trying things outside our comfort zones. Trying new things together not only helps to add a thrill to the date but can also rekindle that spark!

To encourage out-of-the-box thinking, here is a list of places to go and things to do for your next date.

Heat things up at Gathered Glassblowing Studio

What better way to enjoy your date in the Glass City than by making your own awesome creations out of glass? Sign up for a public workshop today, no experience is necessary. Step-by-step instructions are provided and you get to take home an awesome glass masterpiece!

Also, on the 3rd Thursday of every month, the studio has Hot Glass, Cold Beer, and Cool Music Night, in conjunction with the 3rd Thursday Art Loop.

$40+ | 23 N. Huron St.
419-262-5501 | gatheredglass.com

Find Cupid’s Arrow at AJ Archery

Channel your inner Merida (from “Brave”) at AJ Archery Range. Learn safety & range rules, basic shooting instruction, and target shooting from Coach AJ Berning-Matell, a certified USA Archery Level 3-NTS coach. Date night sessions are two hours and cost $30 per couple. Call to set up your date night today!

$30| 425 Jefferson Ave. | 2nd floor
419-474-1103 | ajarchery.com

Rev your engines at Sportway

Who says the kids get to have all the fun? Brace yourself for a date night jammed pack full of fun! Start your engines with the go-karts, take three adrenaline-inducing laps around the course, then let your competitive side out a bit as you challenge your date to a round of miniature golf. Finally, end the date practicing your swings in the batting cage.

$20 | 5950 Angola Rd.
419-867-1006 | sportwayinc.com

Enjoy kayaking, biking, and more at Toledo Metroparks

This is the perfect outdoor date on a dime! Get outside together and enjoy all the beauty around you at one of Toledo’s amazing Metroparks. There is a nice variety of things to do when you visit including, paddle boating ($5 at Pearson Park), fishing, hiking, biking, stand-up paddle boards, kayaking (Farnsworth Park $10-$25). And don’t forget to pack a romantic picnic.

Free | metroparkstoledo.com

Enjoy a relaxing, stress-free day on the river together. River Lures Kayaking takes care of everything, life jacket, paddle, and get this–if you bring your bicycle, staff members will transport it down to you after your kayak trip. They pick up the kayaks and then you and your love can pedal back up the beautiful towpath toward Grand Rapids and meet back at the store.

Kayaking: $10+ | At the Farnsworth Metropark
8505 S. River Rd. | Waterville
419-832-0989 | riverlureskayaking.com

Play detective on a Murder Mystery Dinner Train

This is a one-of-a-kind date night that is sure to be a memorable experience! Who did it? Enjoy fine dining while participating in a humorous table-side murder mystery, on a train! (Rated PG-13 of course)

$69+ | 301 E. Adrian St. | Blissfield, MI
1-888- 467-2451 | murdermysterytrain.com

Spread your wings at the Wheeler Butterfly House

Talk about romantic: you and your love can observe more than 1,000 butterflies fluttering around to classical music. The experience that might lower your cortisol levels and re-ignite that spark. Feel free to pack a picnic to enjoy on the grounds.

$9 | 11455 Obee Rd. | Whitehouse
419-877-2733 | wheelerfarms.com

Discover new flavors with Cooking Classes at Dégagé Jazz Café

Calling all foodies! Chef Mike Lambert, native Toledoan, shares his farm-to-table passion with monthly cooking classes, seasonal menu, locally grown-and-sourced produce, meats, and dairy.

$55+ | 301 River Rd. | Maumee | 419-794-8205
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Spend a romantic night away at Belamere Suites

Get a babysitter, bribe a friend, beg Grandma and Grandpa…. do whatever you need to do to enjoy a night away at this boutique hotel. Tripadvisor ranked Belamere Suites as one of the 10th Most Romantic Hotels in the United States, and we’re inclined to agree— jacuzzi suites, pools, wine baskets, luxurious accommodations, and plenty of rose petals make this stylish get-a-way the perfect place to relax.

Prices range | 12200 Williams Rd. | Perrysburg
419-874-2233 | belameresuites.com

The Zula Patrol: Under the Weather

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Marisa Rubin

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August 24, 2016

Hop in the spaceship and take off on a wild adventure with The Zula Patrol: Under the Weather. During the journey through outer space, youngsters will learn all about the weather on other planets as they experience a hurricane on Jupiter and a dust storm on Mars. In a cool comic style, The Zula Patrol will fight the evil forces of the universe with song, dance and 3D animation.

Saturdays through September | 1pm
$7/adults | $5/children, seniors and UT community members
free/ages 3 and under
Ritter Planetarium | 2855 W. Bancroft St.
419-530-2650 | utoledo.edu/nsm/rpbo

Downtown Coffee Shop puts Pep in your Step

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Karen L. Zickes

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August 24, 2016

Bleak House Coffee

612 Adams St. Toledo 43604
419-740-1125
Mon-Fri: 7:30am-4pm
Sat: 9am-2pm | Sun: Closed
facebook.com/BleakHouseCoffee

As summer comes to a close, my kids and I hold wonderful memories of another summer in the city and the new places we were able to experience. One of our recent adventures in the city was a trip downtown with friends to check out Bleak House Coffee on Adams Street. I assure you the customers, employees, and atmosphere were anything BUT bleak!

Coffee with pizazz

Walking into a small, locally owned business, you can’t help but immediately love the character that it exudes. And in the case of Bleak House, the wonderful aromas that greeted us when we opened the door were more than inviting. GOOD MORNING!

According to manager Eileen Iannone, Bleak House is owned by local attorney Scott Ciolek. The original location was in the historic Spitzer Building until the building was closed in 2012. Now, Bleak House calls a storefront on Adams Street home, an ideal location in the middle of the downtown hustle and bustle.

Admittedly, I still don’t venture downtown as often as I would like but apparently many other people do because for a Saturday morning, the streets were hopping and so was Bleak House. The atmosphere is quite eclectic and though the space at first seemed rather small, there was more seating available than I first realized; including a cozy corner that included plush chairs where a couple people enjoyed their coffee with a book or the morning paper.

I am more of a “foo foo” coffee drinker, but my friend whom I consider a coffee connoisseur loved her simple Cup of Joe. Bleak House uses coffee from Wood Burl in Dayton and Intelligentsia Coffee in Chicago. My daughter and I each enjoyed a latte and wow, they were served with an artful design on top. How’d they do that? They had special training in Chicago; that’s how. I almost didn’t want to take a sip, but the smell of the caramel, cinnamon, and vanilla was too much to resist.

An array of local food offerings

We were initially drawn in on a Saturday after hearing that that was the only day they made specialty waffles. Waffles? You need not tell this crew twice. They prepare artisan waffles that you can’t find just anywhere and their ingredients are not run of the mill. That being said, they don’t come cheap. The waffle of the day will set you back $10. I’m a mom on a budget so I did cringe a bit, but the delicious ham and cheese waffle WAS most enjoyable. According to Ms. Iannone, customers can find the Saturday waffle of the day posted in advance on Facebook. Past favorites have been banana nut bread and the layered tiramisu. YUM.

Since the waffles are a special Saturday treat they are only available until they run out of batter. On that busy Saturday, that was about 10:30a.m. Not everyone at our table was able to enjoy the waffle of the day. They did, however, order a simple waffle with tasty handmade syrup on the side.

Bleak House carries countless products from local merchants. Their full lunch menu, as well as other breakfast items, is served with bread from All Crumbs Artisan Bakery in downtown Toledo. You and your little ones won’t be able to resist the tasty treats from Holey Toledough Doughnuts. What a terrific name! Rachel’s Handmade Ice Cream is sold almost exclusively at Bleak House. Aside from making great sandwiches and salads, Ms. Iannone said they also offer soups in the winter.

Our group kept it simple with just waffles that morning, and fresh juice was an option for my boys while the rest of us savored some fine coffee. However, after perusing their lunchtime offerings, I will need to stop back for lunch and another finely decorated latte that reminds you, “Relax. You’re here.”

Karen Zickes is a mom of three active children
and freelance writer who resides in Holland, OH.
She can be reached in c/o [email protected].

The Short Course

Kid-friendly: Better suited for older children
To avoid wait: Anytime
Noise level: Moderate to loud depending on how busy they are
Bathroom amenities: No changing station
High chairs? No
Got milk? Yes, from Hartzler’s Milk in Wooster, Ohio
Kids’ menu? No, but a selection of baked good would please the little ones for a snack
Food allergy concerns? Always be sure to notify them prior to ordering so food can be prepared safely without cross contamination.

Bottom Line: Bleak House Coffee offers that “home grown” character that can sometimes be hard to find in today’s day and age. They use as many local ingredients as possible and carry many fine items from other local businesses. Though they do not have a changing station or high chairs for the little ones, your older children would certainly enjoy stopping by for a meal or a snack. If the lunch offerings don’t suit their fancy they will, at the very least, enjoy one of the many sweet treats.

Mini Motions Dances Into Its 25th Year

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Athena Cocoves

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August 23, 2016

After a twelve year break from the dance floor, Toledoan Sue Hays had enough— she was ready to get back on her toes.

“I was anxious to get my kids into dance lessons,” says Hays. “I was immediately missing those dancing days, so I started teaching lessons as the same studio where I had once danced. It wasn’t long before I opened my own business in the basement of my home with 25 students.”

That was in 1991. Since then, Hays has danced up a storm, bringing her business’s modest beginnings up the stairs, out of the basement and into a building, where she opened Mini Motions Dance Center with 150 students.

Great moves

Mini Motions recently made a big move to a larger building. Earlier this year, Hays became the owner of Tremainsville Hall, not far from their former location.

In the new locale, Mini Motions still offers the same large variety of classes to choose from, including hip hop, modern, ballet, cheer, and gymnastics, tap, to keep children on their toes. Mini Motions also offers classes for play groups, weddings, Girl Scout troops, and cheer groups. To keep dancers on pointe, gymnastics and technique classes are also available for beginners to those advanced in their craft.

A Toledo Area Parent Family Favorite, Mini Motions won #1 Dance Studio, the #1 Mom owned business, and the #2 Gymnastics Center in 2016.

A leap of faith

Since opening the doors to Mini Motions 25 years ago, Hays has helped students of all ages strut their stuff. Hays brings her lifelong love of dance to each class— she’s been a dancer all her life. She started dancing at age 4, and kept on her feet through high school.

“I wanted to become a Solid Gold Dancer. You have to be my age to know who they are,” says Hays, laughing. “I also always wanted to be a dance teacher and possibly have my own studio.”

Now she does.

Mini Motions Dance Studio | 2437 Tremainsville Rd.
419-473-0999 | minimotionsdance.com