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9-Year-Old Receives Therapy Dog from Ability Center

Photo courtesy of the Ability Center of Greater Toledo

The Ability Center of Greater Toledo has been a blessing to many local families of children with special needs. From facilitating advocacy and education to providing transition services and medical equipment, the organization has helped individuals with disabilities grow in independence; one of the most important ways they’ve managed to do so is with their therapy dog program.

Making it possible
Johey Crawford is a first-hand witness to the benefits a therapy dog from The Ability Center can have on a family. Her granddaughter, Adeline, is a sweet nine-year-old girl who has fetal alcohol syndrome. Johey explained that FASD affects people in different ways, but it is similar to a type of brain damage that affects the frontal cortex. Adeline struggles with regulating her emotions, anxiety, and thrill-seeking behaviors. Additionally, her social age is not always equivalent to her chronological age— despite being nine-years-old, sometimes her social skills can make her seem a bit younger. To help Adeline, her therapist at Double Arc (a center that specializes in helping those with FASD) suggested getting a therapy dog.

Johey did some research online and found that the cost to obtain a therapy dog did not seem possible for her family. Some places had therapy dogs starting at $16,000, none of which would be covered by insurance. “This was beyond what was affordable for our family, so we thought we would have to give up on that idea and just try to get a dog to train by ourselves,” Johey said.

But then they learned through Adeline’s therapist that another family from Double Arc had recently gotten a therapy dog through The Ability Center. The Ability Center has sponsors to help lessen the cost for families. With a maximum possible cost of just $2,000, Johey sent in the application, went through an interview process, and set up an appointment during which Adeline could interact with the dog. After that interaction, they learned that Adeline had been approved for a therapy dog. With the sponsor Auxiliary at the Ability Center and training by Tina Calhoun, a therapy dog named Rider joined Adeline and her family this past spring.

The impact of having Rider
“I cannot begin to put into words the difference Rider has made for our family,” exclaimed Johey. Rider came to live with the family on April 20 this year, so he and Adeline are still learning and growing in their relationship, but Rider can tell when Adeline is anxious or upset. He responds with a calming technique that involves applying gentle pressure to help her regulate her emotions.

Adeline is also responsible for helping to take care of Rider by feeding him, cleaning his teeth and ears when needed, and taking him outside to use the bathroom. This helps Adeline develop a sense of responsibility and self-confidence.

Johey went on to explain that prior to having Rider, Adeline would have up to ten meltdowns a week. A meltdown can happen without a recognizable cause and can last from 20 minutes to seven hours. Typically they are caused by sensory and emotional overload. With Rider, Adeline now only has two or three shorter meltdowns a week.

Additionally, before Rider, Adeline typically couldn’t sleep through the night and wasn’t able to sleep in her own room. Now Rider sleeps with her in her room and keeps a paw on her throughout the night. He also has an LED collar that helps Adeline when she wakes up.

Adeline also has trouble interacting with her peers due to her social skills struggles, but having Rider by her side provides a bridge to socially connect with other kids, and has given her more confidence to slowly build and improve her relationships with her peers.

Johey ended the interview with some pieces of advice for families of children with special needs. “A therapy dog is not the answer for every child,” she said. “But if you have a child with special needs, it’s important to figure out what best supports your child and go for it. Early intervention can be life changing. As a community, we are fortunate to have organizations like The Ability Center and Double Arc serving both children and adults. Rider has indeed been a blessing for Adeline and our family, but the best gift of all is the possibilities he opened for our child!”

Toledo’s Adopt America Network Honors Chris Norton

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Chris Norton, of 7 Yards: The Chris Norton Story on Netflix, will accept Adopt America Network’s 2021 Ransom Award during the Home for Good Gala on November 13.

In October 2010, Norton suffered a spinal cord injury while playing football for Luther College. Doctors gave him only a 3 percent chance of ever moving or feeling below the neck.

Norton was determined to fight the odds, prompting him to set his first goal of walking across the stage at his graduation. In 2015, after years of rehab and help from his fiancée Emily, he was able to make it across the stage to receive his diploma.

Norton then began working towards a second goal: walking Emily seven yards down the aisle at their wedding. The two would go on to co-author The Seven Longest Yards, detailing their journey. The book would later be adapted into the documentary, 7 Yards: The Chris Norton Story.

Eventually, Chris and Emily would foster their first child, Whittley — who is just seven years younger than them. The Nortons were her 18th placement.

“Emily already had this passion in her heart for children in the foster care system,” Norton said. “She grew up knowing that’s what she wanted to do with her life— to help and serve kids.”

In 2019, the Nortons adopted four sisters — Ava, Lilliana, Isabella and Ariana — who at the time were 8, 6, 4 and 1 years old. Then on June 30, 2021 they adopted Keondre, who they started fostering a year and a half earlier when he weighed only 13 pounds, bringing the total to six children.

Discussing the stigma around children in the foster care system, Norton said, “I would really encourage people to somehow get to know them, whether it’s volunteering or maybe just doing an outing or spending time with them.”

Adopt America Network, based in Toledo, was established in 1983 by Richard Ransom — the founder of Hickory Farms.

With a goal of helping families interested in adopting children from the foster care system. The organization assists over 300 children and 500 families a year. From 2016 to 2020, it placed 310 children into adoptive homes.

Each year, Adopt America Network holds the Home For Good Gala where it awards the Richard K. Ransom Award. The Nortons are this year’s recipients.

“Chris and his wife Emily have adopted 6 kids from foster care. They are committed to helping kids grow up in families. That is Adopt America’s mission,” Wendy Spoerl, president of Adopt America Network, said. “We give the award to individuals and organizations that reflect the life’s work of our founder Richard Ransom.”

Previous Ransom Award recipients include Jamie Farr, The Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption and Ohio Lt. Gov. Jon Husted.

The 2021 Home For Good Gala takes place Saturday, November 13 at Parkway Place, 2592 Parkway Plaza, Maumee. The event begins with a champagne reception at 5:30 pm, followed by a formal dinner. Tickets are $150 for a single seat and available online at adoptamericanetwork.org.

John Legend to Perform Private Concert at TMA

The Toledo Museum of Art will be kicking off its new concert series with an intimate performance by multi-platinum recording artist and musical icon John Legend. The event will take place in the Great Gallery at 8pm on Friday, October 22.

Tickets to the concert will be distributed for free to families and children through the Museum’s outreach programs, as well as to a small group of frontline health care workers from ProMedica. The concert is being presented by both ProMedica and the Rita Barbour Kern Foundation.

The performance will consist of Legend performing popular pieces from his body of work, paired with paintings from the Museum’s Baroque gallery, which will be placed in the Great Gallery for the concert. The stage will be in the center of the space, allowing the audience to be surrounded by the pieces while they themselves surround Legend as he performs.

John Legend is a 12-time Grammy award winning artist and one of only 16 people to join the “EGOT” club— winning an Emmy, Grammy, Oscar and Tony Award— becoming the first African American man to do so. He launched his most recent national tour this past September.

For more information about the Toledo Museum of Art, visit toledomuseum.org.

Imagination Station Introduces New Educational Program

Imagination Station is launching a string of events called Toledo Tinkers: Through a Child’s Eyes, which will involve interactive education at various Toledo-Lucas County public libraries around the city in partnership with Northwest State Community College. 

The “Tinkering Takeovers” will focus on S.T.E.A.M (rather than S.T.E.M) which includes Science, Technology, Engineering, Art, and Mathematics. Aimed to support the development of an outreach curriculum, the program has developed a mobile lab that will help kids ages 11-13 and their families establish personal connections with creating and tinkering. The takeovers will include hands-on activities exploring circuits, coding, fabrication, and more. With active participation in the program, students will learn skill-building, innovative thinking, and problem-solving skills with expert guidance from the Toledo Science Center. The project was made possible thanks to a grant from the U.S. Institute of Museum and Library Sciences. 

The next pop-up Tinkering Takeovers, where you can bring your kids for some family-fun and educational activities, will be at Sanger Branch Library on Saturday, October 16 and at Mott Branch Library on Saturday, October 23. Each program will run from 10am-4:30pm and is free and open to the public for ages six and up. For more information or to answer additional questions, call 419-214-9107 or email [email protected]!

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A Nightmare on My Street: Teenage Trick-or-Treaters

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Lights illuminated our house, ten bags of candy brimmed a colossal bowl and my husband donned a Doctor Who costume. Since there are twelve doctors to date, I should specify he intended to be the fourth one, Tom Baker. We were ready for Halloween night in our new abode.

The doorbell rang. Our first trick-or-treaters had arrived. Cinderella, Buzz Lightyear and Superman stood before me holding pumpkin containers and— in unison— said, “Trick-or-Treat.”

Superman pointed at my husband and announced, “Look! He’s dressed as Harry Potter.”

The Doctor Who scarf shared a similar gold and maroon color scheme to the scarf of the famous Hogwarts wizard. It was an understandable error. Doctor Who is an obscure sci-fi television show while Harry Potter is a multi-million dollar franchise with an amusement park. For the next hour, an unremitting stream of eager children gathering candy appeared at our door and an interminable number of people identified my husband as Harry Potter.

And then I had a strange encounter.

The doorbell rang. A young couple stood before me. I searched for their child, but I was unable to locate one.

The young man said, “Trick-or-treat.”

I did a double-take. Neither the man nor woman wore a costume. At first, I believed their age to be in their twenties but then I reconsidered. Could they be in high school? The man had a beard, and the woman’s hair was swept up into a ponytail. They held their pillowcases in front of me, waiting for their treats.

After the shock and disbelief wore off, I felt slightly annoyed. I purchased the ten bags of candy for adorable kids dressed in costumes, not for teens in jeans and t-shirts. I considered offering my opinion by stating, “If you are old enough to grow a beard, drive a car, vote for the president, get a job, then surely you are old enough to drive yourself to the store and buy your own candy or, at the very least, a costume.”

The young man must have sensed my hesitation or possibly read my mind because a smirk appeared across his face. He was offering a subtle reminder that the first word he uttered was “trick.”

I thought to myself, “He is also old enough to procure a dozen eggs, a roll of toilet paper and a bottle of shaving cream.”

I didn’t want to be “that” house that the teens egged, TPed or decorated with shaving cream, so I begrudgingly dropped a Kit Kat, Milky Way and Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup into each of their pillowcases. I was tempted to add, “Which Tony are you supposed to be? Soprano or Montana?”

The young man must have Tweeted or Snapchated or accessed whatever mode of teen communication is currently being used to send messages.

I’m guessing he said something along the lines of, “House #100 is giving out mad candy. And be sure to check out the weird dude dressed as Harry Potter.”

Because after the couple left, we received an influx of similar looking teens.

Our candy supply was running dangerously low. We panicked. What if we ran out? Our new house would be marked like Hester Prynne with a Scarlett A on her dress. It was almost 8pm, so we boldly decided to turn off all the lights and waited. Every sound we heard made us wonder if we were under attack. Finally, the noises died down, and we felt somewhat relieved.

“Well, that isn’t what I expected,” I said.

“Me neither,” said my husband. “I mean, Harry Potter doesn’t look anything like Doctor Who.”

“No, I meant the non-costumed teens invading and ‘asking’ for candy.”

“Yeah, they were a little old for that. When I was a teen, we just went around egging or spraying shaving cream at houses.”

Okay, I didn’t expect to hear that either. 

Next year I’m going to try to prevent some of these adolescents from freeloading off my candy intended for fledgling children decked out in elaborate costumes. Near the doorbell there will be a sign declaring:

Please ONLY ring the doorbell if:

  1. You are dressed in a REAL costume. A sweatshirt, t-shirt and jeans do NOT count. If you are carrying a pillowcase to hold the candy, you probably shouldn’t bother ringing it either.
  1. Due to your age, you are unable to obtain a driver’s license or a job, and you can’t grow facial hair.
  1. Please read #1 and #2 again to make sure you fit ALL the requirements.

Don’t worry, I know what you are thinking. My intricate preparations will also include a fully stocked closet of cleaning supplies.

This article was originally published on YourTeenMag.com. Cheryl Maguire holds a Master of Counseling Psychology degree. She is married and is the mother of twins and a daughter. Her writing has been published in The New York Times, National Geographic, Parents Magazine, AARP, and many other publications. She is a professional member of ASJA. You can find her at Twitter @CherylMaguire05.